MOTHER

My mother, as I know her, was a wonderful person. I was born in January 1977 and due to some negligence on the part of the hospital staff at the time of my birth, I ended up having medical problems because of which all my milestones got delayed. Things which normal children do on their own at certain age became an extremely difficult task for me. I am told how Mama put in all her effort to help me learn the basic skills, motor skills and learning skills. You would be surprised to hear that I started standing at nearly three years of age and talking even later. She got a special walker fabricated for me and used to make me walk with that. To help me learn to talk she used to endlessly keep talking with me even though I did not respond. Because of my medical condition and learning disability I could not get much formal education. I needed special education and since my father was in the Army and was quite often posted to areas where facilities for special education did not exist she herself did a course in Special Education so that she could try those techniques to help me learn. She met a lot of doctors, psychologists and special educators to help me improve. She taught me the very basic things like eating, drinking, standing, walking, bathing, shaving etc to the advanced things like reading, writing, shopping and traveling alone by buses on my own. If you see me standing here and doing my work independently it is all because of my mother. Today she is not there with us and I feel her loss the most. Truly said, since God could not be everywhere, that is why he made a mother.

MAMA I MISS YOU BUT AM SURE THAT YOU WILL LOOK AFTER ME EVEN NOW AND HELP AND GUIDE ME IN ALL MY ACTIVITIES. MAMA I PRAY THAT WHEREVER YOU ARE YOU BE HAPPY AND HEALTHY.

It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed

MY MAMA’S DISEASE AND HER POSITIVE ATTITUDE

My mother was a very wonderful person. She was a very positive person she has taken good care of all of us. Whatever happens or any problem she has solved it and she was never a negative person. Mama told positive things to all of us, When she had a neck pain we took her to doctor. He gave her medicine and also asked for a complete blood test. The result of the blood test told us that her haemoglobin was very low. Then we took her first to Army Base Hospital after that to Army Hospital (R&R). There the doctor took two weeks to find out what it is. Then he told us it is a case of BLOOD CANCER AML2. This aml2 is a very worst case of all. She had it in year 2003.Then we taking her slide to AIIMS (All India Institute Of Medical Science) to seek a second opinion. Their doctor told us to come after two days then he will tell us. We went after two days then doctor confirm us it is a blood cancer aml2. We started taking her to Rajiv Gandhi Cancer Institute there doctor saw her and told us she can live with treatment for 2 ½ years and without treatment for1 ½ years. But she had such a positive attitude that she proved them wrong and she taken treatment for 4 years. After some years we had a child in year 2006 and mama played with her. His name is NAMAN. He is a great boy. He knows lot of things for his age, which no child knows . If he saw you in some car he will tell you which car you came in. When we go to the hospital with her I saw she was in pain but then also she told me never mind son it well get okay. Then we celebrated Naman’s first birthday that day was a best day for her. But what happen to her that night god only knows for she fell sick that day and never recovered from that. Eventually she left us all on 13 Sep 2007.

DIFFERENT TYPE OF GOODS ARE SOLD IN DIFFERENT PLACE

There are different type of goods are sold in different place for us. We can go to the market and purchase the goods that we wanted to take it. GOODS are bought or sold by different person. When we want to take some kind of goods we go to a particular place or shop in our area and close by our area where you get them. Like food item, drink item, electronic item like TV, VCR, DVD, milk, jueg, apple, orange, these product are sold in every place.